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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 44

‘So, what’s new then…who are is keeping you so busy this time round?’ Eve was chilling with her friend who never seemed to make up her mind whether she was straight, lesbian, bisexual or other – Tina. ‘I think am done with women, I need 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 43

‘I miss you…’ Nto said over the phone to Eve. ‘I miss you too…’ ‘Can I come over sometime, there is something about those fingers I want to explore a little more…’ Eve laughed, remembering their fucking and feeling a tingle in her vagina. Nto 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 42

The more Fez and Embo got to know each other, the more they realized how totally different they were. Where Fez loved blue, Embo thought orange was bright and beautiful. If Embo thought commitment was essential, Fez thought it was a waste of time and 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 41

It had been a while since Fez and wifey hit a dead end, after wallowing in misery for a good two months, Eve was determined to introduce her to new people, number one on the list had been a young thing named Thandi. Reluctantly she 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 40

‘Tell me ladies, did any of you ever date men or was it clear for everyone at an early age what their sexual preference was?’ Angel had her elbows on the table with both cheeks cupped in her palms. They were all tipsy now and 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 39

Roses are red, Violets are blue, When Farewells are bade, I so miss you!… Eve read the tiny card as she absentmindedly stirred her coffee. Danai had left awhile back but not before making her breakfast – scrambled eggs, done as she loved them – 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 38

Nto left the next morning, the night before hadn’t been discussed at all. As she got ready, they talked about the mundane, made coffee, made breakfast – Eve whipped up scrambled eggs which they had with slightly burnt toast. Later, they took off Nto’s t-shirt 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 37

They met at Ko’Spotong in Ghandi Square, Eve suggested it, although she could never remember what it was called for the life of her. They sat at a wooden bench, Eve sipped on a gin and tonic and Nto had a heineken. There was smoke 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 36

For Eve the dynamics of their relationships had changed irrevocably. She could not give as freely as before and found herself pushing the bile of resentment down, forcefully willing it away without much success. She had presumed them to be on the same footing and 

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A DAY IN AN AFRICAN LESBIAN’S LIFE 35

‘It’s open,’ Eve shouted from the bathroom at Danai’s persistent knocking. ‘In here…’ She shouted when she heard Danai’s footsteps in the mini kitchen, ‘lock the door after you yea?’ ‘OK…’ Danai said, only loud enough for no one in particular. She pushed the door